Ultimately there are no guarantees but I'd say it's worth a shot. She got engaged 3 months later. I'm sorry this was so longwinded and not really an answer to your questions. It will poison your marriage until the end в of your life, your marriage, or your belief. Its been over a year and I don't know what to do. The important thing is whether or not your spouse will support you in your endevours to live your religion. On the plus side though, after you leave the church, you'll get to spend the remainder of your days bashing it on Reddit. I was thinking about this last night after listening to Radio West.
She was a mormon and he finally joined the church at For 40 years there was a disconnect and she really viewed him as a lesser person cause he wasn't a member. The misogyny is deep in the Mormon church. Righteous love does conquer all but in some cases it takes a lot longer than we are willing to wait. My wife chose me, but most people aren't so lucky. I am particularly tied to an area because of family and friends and he was set on selecting a list that was best suited for his career, not me.
In retrospect, I believe I was being led to my current spouse. I am realizing now, after leaving my job, selling my house, moving ect…. He told me that there is nothing in the world that is more gratifying. If you want to go against that trend, one of you will almost certainly change perspective.
We are trying to conceive now, and I am contemplating if this was the right path for me. However her husband joined the church a few years after their marriage. I just pray that we can make it through the next 3 years. You're only seeing what's on the surface of her Have enough people told you to run. Mormonism, like many extreme religions, often stunts the growth of its members. Better than freezing up and avoiding them altogether. This also means giving her something specific to do. The misogyny is deep in the Mormon church. If your relationship is moving forward, or she suggests doing something more expensive, it is not inappropriate for her to help pay as well. I wanted to be able to fully share my faith with my spouse, but this expectation was now up in the air.